What happened?

A Korean grandmother in her 60s was caring for her 18-month-old grandchild from 7:30 a.m. to 7:30 p.m. while the parents worked, according to a post on an online community on October 17. The son-in-law reportedly paid her 1.2 million won per month for the childcare.

The author, identified as A, said her husband shouted at her mother for breaking his childcare rules. He had asked more than once that the child not watch YouTube or be given snacks. A said the grandmother cried and left the house after the argument.

Why did the rules clash with reality?

A said that keeping an active 18-month-old entertained all day without any videos or snacks was realistically difficult for one caregiver. The family had previously said the grandmother was grateful for the support, and the couple said they could work with peace of mind thanks to her help.

How did people react?

Many commenters criticized the son-in-law, saying paying someone does not justify overworking them, and suggesting he try caring for a child all day himself. Others said they understood parents who do not want toddlers watching screens.

What does research say about toddlers and screens?

A 2024 Australian study in JAMA Pediatrics that analyzed 220 children aged 12 to 36 months found that more screen time was linked to fewer adult words heard, fewer child vocalizations, and fewer back-and-forth conversations. A 2023 Japanese study found that children with longer screen time at age one had higher risk of delays in communication and problem-solving at ages two and four.

For international fans

The story reflects a common tension in Korean families, where grandparents often provide daily childcare while parents work long hours. Childcare arrangements and the question of screen time are frequent topics of debate online.